Chiron in Aries & 1st

Dolores with Chiron in Aries and 1st house said that she has largely ignored her own desires for most of her life. She's always focused on the agenda of others e.g. her husband and sons. She doesn't spend much time on herself. She's more aware of it nowadays as she inches towards her 50s. She's consciously allocating more time for herself and her interests.